I’m seeing that people are now forming far more, much shorter-term, and more superficial relationships with a much larger number of people. From the outside, our relationships seem like a ball of love and trust.
However, most of the people we encounter become “addicted” to their masks.
This situation is similar to the story of a group of hedgehogs meeting on a cold day. As they huddle together to keep warm, their spines prick each other. When they separate, they are bothered by the cold. By moving back and forth, they eventually find the optimal distance where they can warm each other without their spines pricking.
In friendships, we can no longer open our hearts to others if we are not sure they will fulfill their responsibilities.
Because I think regret is much more than just saying “I’m sorry.”
With love and respect.
Uğur Uğural