{"id":544,"date":"2025-05-23T10:51:25","date_gmt":"2025-05-23T07:51:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/destechsunucu.com\/ugurugural\/?p=544"},"modified":"2026-04-14T16:59:28","modified_gmt":"2026-04-14T13:59:28","slug":"mutevazi-bir-sofrada-mutlu-bir-evlilik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugurugural.com\/tr\/mutevazi-bir-sofrada-mutlu-bir-evlilik\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00dcTEVAZ\u0130 B\u0130R SOFRADA MUTLU B\u0130R EVL\u0130L\u0130K"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"544\" class=\"elementor elementor-544\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-75f608a4 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"75f608a4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" 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data-id=\"5c2661d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><div class=\"col-xs-12 col-sm-12 col-md-12 col-lg-12\"><p>Baz\u0131 insanlar ve ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar hayat\u0131m\u0131zda iz b\u0131rakan duygulara neden olurken; ger\u00e7ek &#8221;\u00d6z&#8217;\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc farkedi\u015fimizi perdeliyor sanki. T\u0131pk\u0131 g\u00fcne\u015f tam tepede parlarken ay&#8217;a bakmak gibi.\u00a0\u00a0<br \/><br \/>G\u00fcne\u015f, topra\u011f\u0131 ve denizi hen\u00fcz \u0131s\u0131tmadan serin havay\u0131 i\u00e7ime \u00e7ekiyor ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum: &#8221;Hayat, hayat hakk\u0131nda endi\u015felenmiyor. Belkide bunu bize \u00f6nce insanlar, sonra da zihnimiz y<span class=\"text_exposed_show\">ap\u0131yor.&#8221;<br \/><br \/>Bir ay \u00f6nce Bodrum&#8217;un G\u00fcm\u00fc\u015fl\u00fck mahallesinde tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m Tahir amcayla birlikte bu sabah y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f yapt\u0131k. T\u00fcrkb\u00fck\u00fc sahilinde bulu\u015farak yukar\u0131ya do\u011fru k\u00f6ylerin oldu\u011fu tepelere t\u0131rmand\u0131k. Tahir amcan\u0131n \u00e7ocukluk arkada\u015flar\u0131 Ozan bey ve Saadet han\u0131mla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. M\u00fctevazi sofralar\u0131na konuk olduk. Saadet han\u0131m&#8217;a,\u00a0<br \/><br \/>&#8221;Tahir amca yol boyunca e\u015finiz Ozan bey&#8217;in ve sizin 50 y\u0131ll\u0131k evlili\u011finizdeki sevgi dolu muhabbetti anlatt\u0131. Sizleri yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131mak istedim. Bu arada rahmetli anneannemin ad\u0131 da Saadet idi. Bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z, samimi ve s\u0131cac\u0131k g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcz bana anneannemi hat\u0131lat\u0131yor&#8221; dedim.\u00a0<br \/><br \/>Sohbet boyunca Saadet han\u0131m ve Ozan bey&#8217;in evliliklerindeki g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ba\u011f\u0131, bu ba\u011f\u0131 olu\u015fturan de\u011ferleri ve bu de\u011ferlerin yeti\u015ftirdikleri \u00e7ocuklara nas\u0131l yans\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dinledim. Saadet han\u0131m&#8217;\u0131n \u00f6zellikle \u015fu c\u00fcmlesini unutam\u0131yorum,\u00a0<br \/><br \/>&#8221;Bizim ailemiz g\u00fcven, sevgi ve demokratik ili\u015fkiler \u00fczerine kurulu bir aile. Bir insan kendine g\u00fcven duymuyor, kendini sevmiyor ve kendi ile demokratik bir ili\u015fki kuram\u0131yorsa ya\u015famda bir yan\u0131 hep eksik demektir.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0<br \/><br \/>Bu sabah Ozan bey&#8217;in ve Saadet han\u0131m&#8217;\u0131n sofras\u0131na misafir olup onlarla tan\u0131\u015fabildi\u011fim i\u00e7in ne kadar \u015fansl\u0131 oldu\u011fumu hissettim. Bu sohbeti tekrarlamak i\u00e7in her g\u00fcn bu yoku\u015fu \u00e7\u0131kabilir, saatlerce y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilirdim. \u0130ki g\u00fcn s\u00fcrecek olan Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 Ya\u015fam \u0130\u00e7in Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 Aile Ortam\u0131 seminerim \u00f6ncesi T\u00fcrkb\u00fck\u00fc&#8217;ne d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yolunda \u015funlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.<br \/><br \/>\u0130nan\u00e7 veya inan\u00e7s\u0131zl\u0131k, g\u00fcven duyma veya ku\u015fkulanma, olumlu veya olumsuz beklentiler, herkesin g\u00fcnl\u00fck duygu durumlar\u0131n\u0131n ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin do\u011fal bir par\u00e7as\u0131. Bir\u00e7ok insan tersliklerin \u00fcst \u00fcste geldi\u011fi d\u00f6nemlerde \u015fans\u0131n kendisine k\u00fcst\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne inan\u0131yor. Sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131na y\u00fckleme e\u011filiminde olan ki\u015filer ise insanlar\u0131n bencilli\u011finden ve kat\u0131 y\u00fcreklili\u011finden yak\u0131narak, kendi potansiyelini g\u00f6rmezden gelip bu d\u00fcnyada d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir insan kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan bahsediyor. Bir\u00e7ok insan\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131nda; ba\u015fkalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan itildi\u011fine, engellendi\u011fine ve haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131na inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nemler oluyor. B\u00f6yle d\u00f6nemlerde insanlar \u00e7evrelerine kar\u015f\u0131 k\u0131zg\u0131n ve g\u00fcvensiz oluyorlar. Gen\u00e7lerimiz ve gen\u00e7 \u00e7iftlerimiz aras\u0131ndaki \u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fc g\u00fcvensizlik duygular\u0131n\u0131n temeli acaba buradan m\u0131 geliyor? Evliliklerde e\u015fit sorumluluk da\u011f\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 yap\u0131l\u0131yor mu? 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