{"id":515,"date":"2025-05-23T10:41:24","date_gmt":"2025-05-23T07:41:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/destechsunucu.com\/ugurugural\/?p=515"},"modified":"2026-04-14T16:59:28","modified_gmt":"2026-04-14T13:59:28","slug":"acik-kalpli-olabilmek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugurugural.com\/tr\/acik-kalpli-olabilmek\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u00c7IK KALPL\u0130 OLAB\u0130LMEK"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"515\" class=\"elementor elementor-515\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-75f608a4 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"75f608a4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;shape_divider_bottom&quot;:&quot;mountains&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div 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Tahir amca ailesi, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ve torunlar\u0131 ile bal\u0131k\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k yap\u0131yor. Be\u015f ku\u015fakt\u0131r Bodrum il\u00e7esi G\u00fcm\u00fc\u015fl\u00fck mahallesindeler. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum da; bu y\u00f6renin bilge insanlar\u0131ndan \u2018\u2019sevgi ve a\u00e7\u0131k kalpli olmak\u2019\u2019 \u00fczerine ne \u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011frendim. Her\u015feyden \u00f6nemlisi hi\u00e7li\u011fi ke\u015ffettim.\u00a0<\/p><p>Biliyorum ki \u015fu zor g\u00fcnlerde sevgiye her zamankinden daha \u00e7ok ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var. Belkide sevgi, zaman\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n %100\u2019\u00fcnde kendi ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n\u00a0sorumlulu\u011funu %100 \u00fcstlenmemiz \u00fczerinedir. Bu tan\u0131m \u00f6zellikle anne baba adaylar\u0131 ve anne babalar i\u00e7in \u00fczerinde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmesi gereken bir tan\u0131m diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Tahir amcan\u0131n torunu Melek de \u00e7ok gen\u00e7 bir anne. Takip etmesi i\u00e7in kendisine \u00f6nerdi\u011fim sayfan\u0131n sahibide Melek gibi hen\u00fcz \u00e7ok gen\u00e7 ama olduk\u00e7a \u00f6fkeli bir anne.\u00a0<\/p><p>Sevgili Melek ile bug\u00fcn bu konuyu konu\u015ftuk ve birlikte baz\u0131 farkedi\u015fler ya\u015fad\u0131k, \u2018\u2019\u00f6fkelenmemiz i\u00e7in etraf\u0131m\u0131zda bazen o kadar \u00e7ok neden varki\u2019\u2019 diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fck. San\u0131r\u0131m sizde buna kat\u0131l\u0131yorsunuzdur. Peki ya i\u00e7imiz? \u0130\u00e7imizdeki nedenler bizim \u00f6fkeli y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc saklamak i\u00e7in &#8211; t\u0131pk\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zla oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z gibi &#8211; bizimle oyun oynuyor olabilir mi? K\u00f6\u015fe kapmaca mesela. Bence evet. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yapay bir d\u00fc\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131 \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermeyi gerektiren ger\u00e7ek ya\u015fam\u0131n yerine ge\u00e7erse, bu durum illa ki hepimizde \u00f6nemli uyum sorunlar\u0131 yaratabilir. Nevrotik nitelikte bir egonun d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyayla ili\u015fkide olan b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc ger\u00e7ekleri fark edebilirse de; derindeki b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc bunlar\u0131 yads\u0131ma e\u011filimi pekala g\u00f6sterebilir. B\u00f6ylece \u00f6fkeyi; d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyam\u0131za g\u00fcl\u00fcc\u00fckler sa\u00e7arak i\u00e7imize ak\u0131tsa da kendimizi herkesin hayranl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kazand\u0131racak i\u015fler g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f, \u00fcnl\u00fc, yetenekli, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve sayg\u0131de\u011fer biri olarak d\u00fc\u015fleyebiliriz.\u00a0<\/p><p>Ama i\u00e7imizdeki \u00f6fke uyumazki. \u00c7o\u011fu kez, d\u00fc\u015fmanca duygular da bu imge arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla bo\u015fal\u0131m bulur; zafer kazanan kahraman, yoluna \u00e7\u0131kan herkesi cezaland\u0131r\u0131r, \u00f6tekile\u015ftirir ve ezer. En k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc de insan\u0131n farkedi\u015f kepenklerini kapatarak \u00f6nce kendini \u00f6tekile\u015ftirmesidir.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00d6yle san\u0131yorum ki kendimize kar\u015f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k, d\u00fcr\u00fcst ve sevgi dolu olma yetene\u011fimizin nas\u0131l bozuldu\u011funu net bir \u015fekilde g\u00f6rebilirsek ge\u00e7mi\u015f-gelecek ve \u015fimdi\u2019den daha az etkilenir, daha a\u00e7\u0131k kalpli \u00f6zg\u00fcr bir insan olabiliriz. B\u00f6ylece ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla ili\u015fki kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken kendimizle ilgili ne olup bitti\u011fine dair \u00f6nemli ipu\u00e7lar\u0131na ula\u015fabiliriz.<\/p><p>Her\u015feyden \u00f6nce bu g\u00fczel y\u00f6renin halk\u0131na, mahallede ve k\u00f6yde beni a\u015f\u0131na, sofras\u0131na misafir eden y\u00fcre\u011fi \u2018\u2019zengin\u2019\u2019 insanlar\u0131na te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek istiyorum. 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